Al Hubb-Love and Obsession-
Hari ni.. nak kongsi sedikit topik berkaitan Al Hubb. Al Hubb in arabic, it means love. But, what I want to share today is about kecintaan, ketaksuban. Taksub. Or what we called as an obsession.
So... Why would I relate obsession and Love.? I don't know either, but I think there are relation between these two thing.
I start with an obsession. Malay said, "ikut Rasa binasa, ikut Hati Mati" . Means following your mind n heart solely, will destroy you. I watched a movie titled" taksub syurga". Means obsession for paradise. That pious man was very obsessed with paradise. Yet, it is good things , everyone should be dreaming and praying and hoping to enter the paradise in the Hereafter. But, this man, he was too obsessed. Everything deed he did was just for the purpose of 'pahala' or ''reward''. He thinks that every deeds he was doing is to get 'reward' and that reward is enough for him to make him enter the paradise. Until one day, he questioned God why he was not dead yet. He really want to enter paradise. One day, he make a stupid decision. He ate the rat's poison to kill himself so he can go to paradise. So, he dead as a suicider. Allahu.. naidzubillah min zalik.
Moral: That man should know that one can go to paradise with the 'rahmah' of Allah. The giving from Allah . No matter how much good deeds we have as compared to sin, but one will enter paradise just with the reason of 'rahmat' of Allah. He also should realise that suicide is a great sin in Islam.
In Al Quran, Allah mentioned surah An-nisa verse 29-30.
O you who have believed, do not consume one another's wealth unjustly but only [in lawful] business by mutual consent. And do not kill yourselves [or one another]. Indeed, Allah is to you ever Merciful
And whoever does that in aggression and injustice - then We will drive him into a Fire. And that, for Allah, is [always] easy.
Say, "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited to you. [He commands] that you not associate anything with Him, and to parents, good treatment, and do not kill your children out of poverty; We will provide for you and them. And do not approach immoralities - what is apparent of them and what is concealed. And do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed] except by [legal] right. This has He instructed you that you may use reason" (Al-Ana'am, 6: 151).
and many hadith showing suicidal prohibited in Islam.
So, that was the story or drama in Malaysia under "Tanah Kubur" titled 'taksub syurga 'll
See, that is an example of obsession. I define obsession as something that you really want. Eagerly wanting for it. By hook or by crook, you must get it.
Love? Love is when you want something right. ?
Love and obsession?
Simple example, when we truly love someone, we want them. We want to live happily ever after with them. We want our dream fulfilled by God. Somehow, when there is obstacles, we became far from there. We want the person that we love even more. The feeling of love is even greater. We somehow become obsessed with them. No wonder, there is lot of cases people killing themselves for loves. Or some become crazy. So, here is the poison of Obsession and Love or Al Hubb.
Cure:
The Cure for this obsession is we have to always remembered that everything happens for reasons n according to His Wills. Yes, we should pray and ask God what what we want. And, at the end we shall let to Allah the business. We should tawakkul. Leaving all the things to Allah. From there, we will learn to accept or 'redha' with whatever happens. We then realise everything that happen is the best to happen in our lives. Accepting 'takdir ' or fate as one of His Mercy.
In other words, it is not good to become obsessed with something. Obsessed without remembering God as the one who is controlling everything is going to make life miserable. When we believe and yakinn Allah the Sustainer, the one who Listen, The most Merciful,, we learn to let to Allah decides everything in our life. Do your best and let Allah do the rest. That is it. Learn to Tawakkul.
#tanah Kubur
#taksub syurga
#taksub cinta
#kecintaan. Ketaksuban.
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